REAL Circle of Slingababy Consultants
Radical Empathy, Authentic Listening
Radical Empathy, Authentic Listening
It's a group where Slingababy Consultants can talk about life- the highs, the lows and everything in between. We meet on Zoom and hold space for each other to talk about whatever is on our minds or in our hearts. It's a non-judgemental, supportive atmosphere where you are included, accepted and heard. We leave our 'shoulds' at the door, we don't give advice, instead we share compassion, encouragement and stories.
The Circle is consent based - you only need to share if you feel like it, and only share what you want to. We also encourage you to consider having the courage to be a little vulnerable if you feel able, as you may get more from the circle that way, but we understand it's a personal choice and we are happy for you to find the balance of comfort and courage that feels right for you.
You will be a part of a Circle of people who hold space for each other, respect each other and raise each other up. We aren't meant to do this on our own.
It is for anyone who has trained as a Sling Consultant with Slingababy. If you've got a little one who needs to be with you of course they are welcome, you may choose to use headphones if you want to filter what your little one hears.
Currently it's on the first Wednesday of the month from 8-10pm.
You can pick and choose which Circles to come to. It's great if it works for you occasionally, and it's also lovely to see you again and again and build the sense of community!
On Zoom! I'll email you the zoom link after you book.
Tickets are £10 per person. Often, that £10 comes from the person booking but, if finances are a barrier, you can pay whatever feels comfortable (from zero pounds upwards!) and the rest of the ticket cost can come from the Random Act Of Kindness (RAOK) fund.
Equally, if you'd be happy to pay a bit more than £10 to reflect your fortunate circumstances, you would be helping another person to be able to attend at a price that is right for them - your Random Act Of Kindness for the day! See the Random Act Of Kindness page for more details about the RAOK fund.
Fill out the booking form here to book for as many Circles as you like (you can pick and choose dates). You can pay by bank transfer or debit card, but if you need an alternative payment method, just ask. Details are in the booking form.
After arriving and settling in for a few mins, I'll do an intro/welcome and then there are four parts of the Circle:
Mini guided meditation (only 6mins long and very straightforward, even for the meditation-averse so I've been told!).
We take it in turns to share what's on our minds or in our hearts (no expectations, share what you want) whilst everyone else just listens.
We have a group chat about anything that came up in the first half, with the consent of the original speaker.
We end with a round of gratitude!
During the whole thing you're welcome to eat, drink, nip to the loo anytime, keep yourself comfy in whatever way feels good.
There are sometimes a few tears when sharing about something that feels hard, as it's a supportive space where you can do that, there's always loads of solidarity and plenty of laughter as we all just 'get it'!
You can ask the group any questions that are on your mind, knowing that no-one will judge you or tell you what to do, because I make it clear that you know your life best. Instead of advice, you'll hear stories, experiences and information from myself and others. You don't have to have a question to come along, it's all about having the opportunity to connect with others and be part of a group.
There are a maximum of eight spaces available for each Circle, but the number attending varies Circle to Circle. A minimum of three attendees is required in order for the Circle to run.
Places are limited, so if you need to cancel, I would appreciate you letting me know as soon as circumstances change, so that I can offer your space to someone else.
If you cancel more than 24hrs before the circle, you may transfer your ticket to a future circle or find a friend to take your place. The onus is on you to look out for future dates and rebook.
If you cancel within 24hrs of the circle, transfers to a future circle may be offered in exceptional circumstances only. If you can find a friend to take your place your ticket can be used by them instead - you must let me know. They will need to fill out the booking form before the circle.
If you don’t show up and haven’t told me you’re not coming, no refunds or transfers will be offered except in exceptional circumstances.